This Was My Motherhood.

This Was My Motherhood.

This week is maternal mental health week. It’s 9 and 10 years since I had my babies (the ones that fall within the “perinatal mental health period” anyway), but I still struggle with my mental health. It was a long time before I spoke or wrote openly about how bad...
5 Skills A Midwife Can Transfer to Stillbirth

5 Skills A Midwife Can Transfer to Stillbirth

I regularly see student midwives, and newly qualified midwives expressing concern about how they can provide support in a stillbirth situation. It is natural to feel worried about something we have never done before – particularly when we know that that...
Stillbirth: Still A Taboo

Stillbirth: Still A Taboo

You don’t have to spend very much time walking the line between birthworker and bereaved parent before you realise that stillbirth is still this big, scary mystery. 9 years on from the death of my son, there is still much to be done to change the conversation about...
An Open Letter To The Family In The Pool

An Open Letter To The Family In The Pool

Dear family in the pool…. You’ll probably never see this letter, or realise it refers to you. After all nothing out of the ordinary occurred. You enjoyed playing catch in the pool – a grandad and his grandson & grandaughter. Your fun effortlessly...